For some it's their height. Others will blame it on their age, while others
will say it's their income... and for some guys, it's a reason except
themselves... maybe it's the place that they live, or where they work.
Guys use their Secret Excuses to justify their own failures whenever they
don‘t have a REAL reason.
What's YOUR Secret Excuse for why you don't succeed with women at the
level you'd like to?
If you can, stop right now and write down your own personal Secret Excuse
for failing with women.
Then, see if you can figure out from where that Secret Excuse came. Did
something happen in your life that led you to believe that your Excuse was
REALITY? Did you have a particularly traumatic event happen that led you to
your excuse?
Whatever it is, you need to stare this excuse square in the eye.
Your Excuse Isn‘t As Much Of A ―Secret‖ As You Think
Here‘s the most interesting part of this particular phenomenon... NO
MATTER HOW "PRIVATE" OR "PERSONAL" your Secret Excuse is, IT'S VERY
COMMON! Guys all over the world throughout history have probably all dealt
with it. Hell, I‘ve probably personally faced it.
And guess what?
I guarantee you that there are MANY, MANY guys in this world that have
overcome your very same situation and gone on to succeed with women.
I think that the "Secret Excuse" is our way as guys of making it easier to
avoid facing reality...
THE REASON FOR FAILURE IS INSIDE OF OURSELVES... IT'S THE WAY WE
THINK AND BEHAVE.
But the PROBLEM with a Secret Excuse isn't the excuse itself... it's the fact
that most guys don't know how to OVERCOME their Secret Excuse.
Secret Excuses can wire themselves into our minds so deeply that we don't
even realize the effects that they're having.
If you believe that women won't feel attracted to you because you're, say,
overweight, then you won't even TRY to meet women. You'll just assume that
it's no use.