Reference group. Your reference group can bring you new ideas you
couldn‘t see on your own and give you the fresh perspective you need
to find change.Updating Your Pattern for Talking to Attractive Women
Let‘s take the example of how you talk to a beautiful woman. Most guys
imagine that a beautiful woman would reject any advance they made, so they
either say nothing or talk meekly. What you need to do is 'recondition' yourself
to do something DIFFERENT. My favorite victims for ―reconditioning practice‖
are waitresses, tellers, checkers, and other business employees.
Here's what to do: Decide that you're going to start a conversation, no
matter how short, with EVERY SINGLE WOMAN THAT YOU MEET FROM NOW
ON.
I personally made it a habit to tease and have fun with EVERY woman that
I met just to keep myself CONDITIONED. I like humor, as you know... and I
personally used to say things that were pretty far out.
Let's say I was sitting down for a bite to eat at a restaurant and I was
alone. When the hostess walked over to me and said, "Just one?" I might say
"Yes, unless of course you‘re joining me..."
Then I would use whatever she said and play on it. So she might answer "I
would but I have to work" to which I would say ―Yea, well quit your job then
join me. I'm more fun than work anyway.‖ She‘d laugh, and the encounter was
over.
Just a few lines... and then I‘d do it again next time I talked to a woman.
Like if I was at the market in the produce department and a woman bumped
me with her cart. She might say, "Oh, I'm sorry" and I‘d turn and say ―I'm
going to have to ask you for your license and insurance information.‖
Are you with me? I was teasing, flirting, and having fun ALL THE TIME.
Now, this may seem like a simple idea. But that's the beauty of it. If you start
three flirty conversations a day for at least 30 days, that's 90 short
conversations you‘ve had with women. What you won't realize is that your
mind is slowly becoming CONDITIONED to think ―Oh, there's a woman, I need
to go start a conversation with her‖... but it‘s happening. And that‘s a good
thing.