The Dating Black book

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Trait 1: Self-Confidence

THE THREE S’S – THE KEY TO YOUR INNER GAME......................................................................................

Your internal game relies on your adherence to what I’ve termed the Three S’s. These
three traits, when internally developed and externally demonstrated, will yield you power and
charisma with women.
Here they are:

elf-Confidence

elf-Discipline ense of Humor

The way you feel about yourself will ultimately determine the quality of your relationships.

Self-confidence is your projection of yourself and your security. When you have self-
confidence, you are projecting that:

• You’re happy with yourself


• You’re not afraid of life or what is coming in the future


• You have a positive attitude


• You know where you’re going


• You’re independent, not dependent and needy