The Art of Approaching

(Rick Simeone) #1

So remember: Always know what you want! To the most minute detail. And don’t be
afraid to walk away should one of your requirements not be met.


STEP 2


The next step, after knowing what you want, is to ask yourself: Where can I find the type
of women I want to meet?


This is really important. Different places attract different types of women. Depending on
where you go, you will get a different category of women.


Notice, I’m not saying you can’t meet a nice, stable girl who’s ready to settle down at a
nightclub. But your chances of meeting a wild party girl who’s just into hooking up with
a guy at such a venue is much greater. So if that’s what you’re looking for, a nightclub is
a good bet you’ll meet that type of girl there.


If you’re looking for a girl who’s a little less wild, maybe more intellectual, where would
you meet these types of women? Figure out the places where a certain type of woman
would congregate. In this instance: museums, book stores, art galleries, and libraries
come to mind.


Once you know where the type of girl you want to meet will be, it will be far, FAR easier
to meet them! Just think of all the time and effort you’ll save by skipping the venues
where the women you don’t want dominate.


Of course, you should always be on the lookout for the type of women you want, so don’t
dismiss all women just because the venue isn’t right. But typically, if you’re on the
prowl, the location will dictate the type of women you’ll find.


STEP 3


Now that you know what you want, and where to find it, it’s time to look at what you’ll
be presenting the world. Namely – YOU!


Let’s face it, certain types of women are attracted to certain types of men. Depending on
how you look, you will attract a certain type of girl.


Notice, I’m not talking about your physical looks here. We can’t control how good
looking or ugly we are physically. But we CAN control our appearance. This includes
our hairstyle, our skin, our facial hair, our weight, and our clothing. We can groom
ourselves to project a certain image that will attract the women we’re after.


Let’s take an example of this. Let’s say I want to attract a stripper, and strippers are all I
want to date for the rest of my life. Now, I know from experience that strippers are very
easily attracted to “Rock and Roll” types. This doesn’t mean you can’t date strippers if
you like to wear suits or simple t-shirts and jeans. But if you grow your hair long, have


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