each other, and not talking for a good two hours. So in reality, your date only really
consists of dinner, so that’s a good hour’s worth of a date right there,” said David.
I nodded. “So you’re saying I should stop taking them to movies?”
“I’m saying you should maximize the time you have with them. If you want to take them
to a movie, make sure there is sufficient time afterwards to hang out and talk. Dating
isn’t about doing stuff together, it’s about strengthening the connections between the two
of you.”
“So that’s why it’s taking so long to get anywhere with these girls,” I said, the realization
finally starting to dawn on me. “I’m not strengthening the connection quick enough.”
“Exactly,” said David. “You’re just wasting time with them for the most part. It’s no
wonder nothing happens after the date. Did you know I get laid every time I go out on a
date?”
I nodded. “Of course, you always brag about it.”
“You ever wonder why that is?”
I never really had before. David wasn’t a good looking guy. He was in his late 30s, was
kind of short, and a little pudgy. Yet I knew he was pulling massive amounts of tail. I
had always assumed it was due to his seduction skills, but now he was revealing that it
had something to do with the way he dated women.
I was intrigued.
“Are you going to tell me, or am I going to have to guess?” I asked.
“It’s because every date I go out on is really five to seven dates,” he said.
I cocked my head and gave him a strange look. “Five to seven dates in one date? That
doesn’t make any sense.”
“It does if you understand the concept of mini-dating,” he said smiling.
“So spill it!” I said. “What’s mini-dating?”
“Mini-dating is when you go out with a woman on one date, and make her feel like she’s
been dating you for weeks,” said David.
I raised my eyebrow. This sounded interesting indeed.
“How does that work?” I asked.
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