FLIRTING GUIDELINES
Here are a few hard and fast rules you can abide by when you want to flirt with a woman.
- Use flattery – Like the old saying goes, flattery will get you everywhere!
Women love it when nice things are said about them (I mean, let’s face it, who
doesn’t?). Just make sure what you say genuine! Not only do you not want to get
caught in a lie or sound insincere, but why would you want to compromise your
personal integrity by complimenting something you actually don’t find appealing
or interesting? - Greet others with energy – First impressions are always important. It’s much
harder to start an interaction with someone at a low energy and build it up than it
is to start an interaction with high energy and let it settle. The more energy you
come into an interaction with, the more the person you talk to will be willing to be
swept away with it! - Make direct eye contact – Nothing communicates confidence better than direct
eye contact with someone. Always be looking the person you’re talking to in the
eye. A hard, steady gaze can be quite seductive, but it also helps to establish a
strong connection to the person you’re speaking with. - Repeat her name – Personally, I have a terrible memory for names, so I usually
like to repeat the person’s name a couple times in conversation just to try and
remember it. However, this is also a great tactic to use when flirting, because
you’re making an effort verbally say the woman’s name that you’re talking to. In
a subtle way, hearing someone say your name creates comfort and familiarity
with that person. Do this with the woman you’re talking to, and she’ll feel
exactly that! - Ask questions about her – Women do like to talk about themselves, and asking
her about herself shows interest on your part about who she is and what she’s
about. Some dating experts out there don’t recommend doing this because they
think you place too much importance on the girl. I think that it’s important to
show you’re interested in who she is as a person, but not only that, you’re also
gathering information so you can figure out common topics of interest that you
can then relate to. For instance, if she once lived in a city you lived in too, you
can then jump in and start talking about your experiences in that city. This helps
create further connection between the two of you.
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