“I’m sorry for being an ass,” I said walking up. “I’ve been upset lately, and took it out on
you guys. I was out of line.”
Ramirez nodded. “Its okay, we all have those days.”
“I told Ramirez you haven’t been getting laid lately,” my buddy joked. “He TOTALLY
understands.”
We all laughed.
“Well, I’m aiming to change that very soon,” I said.
“Why wait?” asked Ramirez. “There are some pretty hot girls here.”
I nodded. “Let’s do it!”
We ended up approaching five different groups of girls that night. I stopped spouting any
pre-canned or memorized material and just focused on having fun, and being happy in the
moment. I found Ramirez and my buddy, while poor wingmen, were both a blast to hang
out with. I ended up going home that night with two phone numbers.
From that point on, I started to really focus on my controlling my own thoughts, feelings,
and emotions instead of trying to influence those of the girl I was with. I now use a
combination of pre-memorized lines and routines, along with state control techniques,
and found it to be quite effective.
Remember when approaching a woman, or attracting a woman, you ultimately have no
control over her. But you have complete control over yourself.
When things don’t go right, you can choose to feel bad, or you can choose to shrug it off
and move on. But whatever happens, remember that how you feel affects what those
around you feel.
At the very least, you can’t go wrong making those around you feel good.
At the most, you can never go wrong making yourself feel good.
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