The Art of Approaching

(Rick Simeone) #1

“Okay,” she said. “Well, if I’m still here when the movie lets out come on back.”


“Sure thing,” I said before walking away. David followed close behind.


“Dude,” he said, “What the hell is wrong with you?”


I looked at him. “What?” I asked.


David scowled. “That girl is totally into you and you’re just going to walk away?”


I looked at him funny.


“What are you talking about?” I said. “We were just fooling around.”


“Are you serious?” said David. “Did you not see all the signals she was giving you?”


“Signals?” I asked. “No. What signals?”


David rolled his eyes. “Man, you’ve got a lot to learn about women,” he said.


At that point, David was a pretty accomplished pick up artist himself. And on that day,
he taught me all about reading female body language.


The old saying is “Actions Speak Louder Then Words,” and nothing could be more true.
If you can learn how to read what a woman’s body tells you, you will always know which
women are interested and open to your advances, and which women you’re wasting your
time with.


These body language cues are what I like to call “Approach Invitations.”


They’re gestures that signal a willingness and openness to talk to you. They can also be
strong indicators of attraction, so keep your eyes open for them, you’ll know what you’re
doing is working!


Basically, approach invitations are the same for both sexes (after all, we’re more alike
than we sometimes like to give ourselves credit for!), but here’s a short list of common
Approach Invitations to be on the lookout for:



  • Touching the hair

  • Smoothing the clothing

  • One or both hands on hips

  • Foot and body pointing towards you

  • Extended intimate gaze

  • Increasing eye contact


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