unconsciously we do tend to rein our partners in a bit, and
they do lose their sparkle.
Yo u h a v e t o e n c o u r a g e y o u r p a r t n e r t o s t e p o u t s i d e o f t h e
coziness of the relationship and rediscover her energy and
vitality. She may need to spend some time rediscovering her
talents and skills at independence. And you may need to sit on
your hands at times to avoid reining her in again. So encour-
age, stand back, sit on your hands, push, and be there. Tall
order. Most successful relationships have an element, and a
big one, of independence. The couple spends time apart to
bring something back to the relationship. This is healthy. This
is good. This is grown-up.
WHAT ATTRACTED YOU?
WHAT WAS
SPECIAL ABOUT HER?
WHAT TURNED YOU ON?