deceit
(see
Law
21,
SeemDumberThanYourMark).
Andeven
genuinenaivetéisnotfreeofthesnaresof
power.
Children
maybenaivein
manyways,
but
theyoften
act
from
an
elementalneed
to
gaincontroloverthosearoundthem.
Children
suffer
greatly
fromfeelingpowerless
in
theadultworld,
andthey
use
anymeansavailableto
gettheirway.Genuinely
inno-cent
peoplemay
stillbeplaying
for
power,andareoften
horriblyeffectiveatthe
game,
sincethey
arenothinderedby
reflection.Onceagain,
thosewhomake
ashowor
display
ofinnocencearetheleastinnocentofall.Youcanrecognize
thesesupposednonplayersby
thewaythey
flaunttheirmoral
qualities,
theirpiety,
theirexquisite
senseofjustice.
Butsinceallofus
hunger
for
power,andalmostallofouractionsareaimedatgain-
ing
it,
the
nonplayers
aremerelythrowing
dust
inoureyes,distracting
usfrom
their
powerplays
with
theirairofmoralsuperiority.
If
youobservethem
closely,you
willseeinfactthatthey
areoftentheonesmostskillfulatindirect
manipuiation,
evenifsomeofthem
practiceitunconsciously.
Andthey
greatly
resentanypublicizing
ofthetacticsthey
useeveryday.
Iftheworldislikeagiantscheming
courtandwearetrapped
inside
it,thereisnousein
tryingto
optoutofthe
game.Thatwill
onlyrender
youpowerless,
andpowerlessness
willmake
youmiserable.
Insteadof
strug-glingagainst
the
inevitable,
insteadofarguing
and
whiningandfeeling
guilty,
itisfarbettertoexcelat
power.Infact,
thebetter
youareatdealing
with
power,thebetter
friend,lover,
husband,wife,
and
personyoubecome.Byfollowing
the
route
of
theperfect
courtier
(see
Law
24)youlearntomakeothersfeelbetteraboutthemselves,
becoming
a
sourceofpleasure
tothem.
Theywill
growdependent
on
yourabilitiesanddesirousof
yourpresence.Bymastering
the 48 lawsinthis
book,
you
spareothersthe
painthatcomesfrombungling
withpower—~byplaying
withfirewithoutknow-ing
itsproperties.
If
the
gameof
powerisinescapable,
bettertobeanartistthan2.denierorabungler.
Learning
the
gameofpowerrequires
acertain
wayoflooking
atthe
world,ashifting
ofperspective.
It
takeseffort
and
yearsofpractice,
formuch
ofthe
game
maynotcomenaturally.
Certainbasicskillsarerequired,
andonce
youmastertheseskills
youwillbeabletoapply
thelawsof
powermore
easily.Themost
importantoftheseskills,
andpower’s
crucial
foundation,istheability
tomaster
youremotions.
An
emotional
responsetoa.situationisthesinglegreatest
barrierto
power,amistakethatwillcost
youalotmorethan
any
temporarysatisfaction
youmightgainby
expressingyour
feel-ings.
Emotionscloud
reason,
andif
youcannotseethesituationclearly,
youcannot
prepareforandrespond
toitwith
anydegree
ofcontrol.Anger
isthe
mostdestructiveofemotional
responses,forit
cloudsyourvisionthemost.Italsohasaripple
effectthatinvariably
makessitua-tionslesscontrollableandheightensyour
enemy’s
resolve.If
youare
try»ing
todestroy
an
enemywhohashurt
you,farbettertokeep
him
off—guardbyfeigning
friendlinessthanshowingyouranger.
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