ters——t.he
person
with
willpower,
or
smarts,
or,
most
important
of
all,
charisma.Whateveritcosts
you,
lurethis
personaway,
foronceheisab-
senthis
powers
willlose
their
effect.
His
isolationcanbe
physical(banish-
ment
orabsencefrom
the
court),
political(narrowing
his
baseof
support),
or
psychological(alienating
himfromthe
group
through
slanderandin-
sinuatiun).
Cancer
begins
witha
single
cell;
exciseitbeforeit
spreads
be-
yond
cure.
KEYSTOPOWER
Inthe
past,
anentirenationwouldberuled
by
a
king
andhishandfulof
ministers.
Only
theelitehad
anypower
to
play
with.Overthe
centuries,
power
has
gradually
becomemoreandmorediffused
and
democratized.
This has
created, however,
acommon
misperception
that
groups
no
longer
havecentersof
power——-thatpower
is
spread
outandscattered
amongmanypeople.
Actually,
however,
power
has
changed
initsnum-
bersbutnotinitsessence.There
may
befewer
mightytyrants
command
ing
the
power
oflifeand
death
over
millions,
butthere
remainthousands
of
pettytyrantsruling
smaller
realms,
and
enforcing
theirwill
through
in-
direct
powergames,
charisma,
andsoon.In
every
group,
power
iscon-
centratedinthehandsofoneortwo
people,
forthisisoneareainwhich
humannaturewillnever
change:People
will
congregate
arounda
single
strongpersonality
like
planetsorbiting
asun.
Tolaborundertheillusionthatthiskindof
power
centerno
longer
existsistomakeendless
mistakes,
waste
energy
and
time,
andneverhit
the
target.
Powerful
people
neverwastetime.
Outwardlytheymayplay
along
withthe
game-—pretending
that
power
is
shared
amongmanymbut
inwardlytheykeep
their
eyes
ontheinevitablefewinthe
group
whohold
thecards.Thesearetheones
they
workon,Whentroubles
arise,
they
lookforthe
underlying
cause,
the
singlestrong
characterwhostartedthe
stirring
andwhoseisolationorbanishmentwillsettlethewaters
again.
Inhis
fami1y~therapypractice,
Dr.MiltonH.Ericksonfoundthatif
the
familydynamic
wasunsettledand
dysfunctional
therewas
inevitably
one
person
whowas
the
stirrer,
thetroublemaker.
In
hissessionshewould
symbolically
isolatethisrotten
applebyseating
himorher
apart
fromthe
others,
if
onlyby
afewfeet.
Slowly
theother
family
memberswouldsee
the
physicallyseparateperson
asthesourceoftheir
difficulty.
Once
you
recognize
who
thestirrer
is,
pointing
itout
toother
people
will
accomplish
a
great
deal.
Understanding
who
controlsthe
groupdynamic
isa
critical
realization.Remember:Stirrersthrive
byhiding
inthe
group,
disguising
theiractions
among
thereactionsofothers.Rendertheiractionsvisible
and
they
losetheir
power
to
upset.
A
key
elementin
games
of
strategy
is
isolating
the
enemy’spower.
In
chess
youtry
tocomerthe
king.
IntheChinese
game
of
goyoutry
toiso~
latethe
enemy’s
forcesinsmall
pockets,rendering
themimmobileandin-
effectual. It is often better to isolate
your
enemies than to
destroy
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