ters——t.he
person
with
willpower,or
smarts,
or,most
importantofall,
charisma.Whateveritcosts
you,
lurethis
personaway,foronceheisab-senthis
powers
willlose
their
effect.
His
isolationcanbephysical(banish-
ment
orabsencefrom
the
court),
political(narrowing
his
baseofsupport),
or
psychological(alienating
himfromthe
groupthrough
slanderandin-sinuatiun).
Cancerbegins
withasingle
cell;exciseitbeforeitspreads
be-yond
cure.KEYSTOPOWERInthe
past,
anentirenationwouldberuledby
a
kingandhishandfulofministers.
Only
theelitehad
anypowertoplay
with.Overthe
centuries,power
hasgradually
becomemoreandmorediffused
and
democratized.This has
created, however,
acommon
misperception
that
groupsnolonger
havecentersof
power——-thatpowerisspread
outandscatteredamongmanypeople.
Actually,
however,
powerhaschanged
initsnum-bersbutnotinitsessence.There
maybefewer
mightytyrantscommanding
the
poweroflifeand
death
over
millions,butthere
remainthousandsofpettytyrantsruling
smallerrealms,
andenforcing
theirwillthrough
in-direct
powergames,
charisma,
andsoon.In
every
group,
poweriscon-centratedinthehandsofoneortwopeople,
forthisisoneareainwhichhumannaturewillneverchange:People
will
congregatearoundasingle
strongpersonality
likeplanetsorbiting
asun.Tolaborundertheillusionthatthiskindof
powercenternolonger
existsistomakeendlessmistakes,
waste
energyand
time,
andneverhitthe
target.Powerfulpeople
neverwastetime.Outwardlytheymayplay
along
withthegame-—pretending
that
poweris
sharedamongmanymbut
inwardlytheykeep
their
eyesontheinevitablefewinthe
groupwhoholdthecards.Thesearetheonesthey
workon,Whentroubles
arise,they
lookfortheunderlying
cause,
thesinglestrong
characterwhostartedthestirring
andwhoseisolationorbanishmentwillsettlethewatersagain.
Inhisfami1y~therapypractice,
Dr.MiltonH.Ericksonfoundthatifthefamilydynamic
wasunsettledanddysfunctional
therewasinevitably
one
personwhowas
the
stirrer,
thetroublemaker.
In
hissessionshewouldsymbolically
isolatethisrottenapplebyseating
himorher
apartfromtheothers,
ifonlyby
afewfeet.Slowly
theother
familymemberswouldseethephysicallyseparateperson
asthesourceoftheirdifficulty.
Once
yourecognize
who
thestirrer
is,
pointingitout
tootherpeople
willaccomplish
a
greatdeal.Understanding
who
controlsthegroupdynamic
isa
criticalrealization.Remember:Stirrersthrivebyhiding
inthe
group,disguising
theiractions
amongthereactionsofothers.Rendertheiractionsvisibleandthey
losetheir
powerto
upset.Akey
elementin
gamesof
strategyisisolating
theenemy’spower.
Inchess
youtrytocomertheking.
IntheChinese
gameof
goyoutrytoiso~latethe
enemy’s
forcesinsmallpockets,rendering
themimmobileandin-effectual. It is often better to isolate
yourenemies than todestroy
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