does not stand a chance. Quite often women who have found
their soul mates say that at first they were just friends and that
the romance came later. Their husbands point out that the po-
tential for physical attraction, from their side, was almost al-
ways there.
MEN FEEL PHYSICAL ATTRACTION FIRST
When a man meets his soul mate, there is almost always a
spark of physical attraction to start with. When it is not there,
it could simply be that he doesn’t understand the importance
of having standards. He simply follows his attractions and
doesn’t learn to become more discerning about whom he picks.
A man temporarily loses his ability to feel physical attraction
for a woman who could possibly be his soul mate when he
consciously chooses to pursue other women whom he clearly
knows are not his type.
The more a man pursues women he could not love, the less
he is able to feel physically attracted to a woman that he could
love. By learning from his experience to distinguish between
the women to whom he is attracted, a man gets closer to finding
the right person for him.
The more a man pursues women that he could
not love, the less he is able to feel physically
attracted to a woman whom he could love.The more discerning we become about whom we are willing
to share a relationship with, the closer we get to finding our
soul mate. Although a few people hit the target in a few tries,
most of us go through the normal process of trial and error.
Through repeated self-correction, we eventually meet the right
person. This process of increasing discernment
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