aspect of her character: her kindness, strength, and power; or
her wisdom, clarity, and generosity; or her honesty, openness,
and fairness; or her patience, courage, and persistence; or her
self-sufficiency, competence, and gracefulness; or her compas-
sion, love, and spirituality. There is no one particular attribute
or combination of attributes that makes a woman attractive to
all men.
Some men will be attracted to more mature character devel-
opment, while others will be attracted to less mature develop-
ment. It may be a woman’s abundant and mature wisdom that
makes her attractive to a man, or it could be her youthful, in-
nocent desire to know more. It could be a woman’s selfless
generosity that makes her attractive, or it could be her desire
to have more so she can share more. The degree to which a
woman has developed aspects of her character does not inter-
fere with making her attractive to a man. Neither more nor
less is necessarily better. She is most attractive when she is
herself and there is mental chemistry.
At level three, a man will begin to experience that a lot of
women are interesting to him but only a few are outstanding.
Only a few women will have the aspects of character to which
he is most attracted. He will most successfully increase his
discernment by getting to know and getting involved with
only these women. Simply feeling physically attracted or
friendly is no longer the primary requirement. Now a woman
must also be very interesting to him.
LEVEL FOUR FOR MEN: SOUL ATTRACTION
Continuing to exercise his growing discernment by choosing
to date only women who attract him on all three
levels—physical, emotional, and mental—a man begins to
realize his ability to feel soul attraction. When he reaches level
four, his
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