more respect than if you move at a slower tempo. Slowness is equated to lazi-
ness, although someone who takes a more measured approach towards time
may actually accomplish more than those people who dash about, often
accomplishing little or nothing.One way you can improve your use of time is to anticipate what’s coming
next. Before completing one task, think about what may follow, and plan your
approach. This anticipatory scanning technique is particularly useful for
anyone working with the public, such as waiters and airline personnel. A
skilled employee anticipates the customers’ needs in advance by identifying
cues and specific signals, and responds to them before being asked.Sometimes you feel good and can communicate with ease and enthusiasm. At
other times, all you want to do is turn out the lights and pull the covers over
your head. The body’s natural time rhythms influence these moods. When
the rhythms become disrupted as happens when you’re suffering from jet lag
or too many late nights, you may find yourself making mistakes and behaving
irrationally. Go get yourself a good night’s sleep and see how you do in the
morning.If you want to show that you’re paying attention to a person who’s speaking,
synchronise your body movements with his. It has been argued that by
having your gestures echo those of others, a rhythmic pattern is produced
that enhances communication.Dressing the Part..........................................................................................
Glad rags, jeans, or a pinstriped suit? What’s it to be? It depends on how you
want to be perceived and the impression you want to make. The way you
dress sends out messages about you. Observe how your friends and col-
leagues present themselves and adapt your style to meet theirs.The key is knowing what’s expected and what’s acceptable. If you work for a
traditional organisation where a suit and tie for men and jackets and skirts or
trousers for women are the norm, you’re tempting fate to show up in track-
suit trousers and a hoodie. To do so makes other people uncomfortable.
They would also question your judgement.Sure, you want to be comfortable and dress in a way that reflects who you
are. You also want to be appropriate. You really do. Your clothes needn’t be
expensive. They do need to be clean, in good repair, and suited to your shape
and style. They need to represent you at your best and make the people
you’re with feel comfortable.288 Part V: The Part of Tens