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whether he’s able to listen to what his partner wants and
accommodate her needs.

5. While sitting at a sidewalk café, Emma notices her boyfriend
   Todd checking out other women as they walk by.
   “I really hate it when you do that. It’s so humiliating,” she says.
   “What do you mean?” he responds innocently.
   “You know exactly what I mean. You’re staring.”
   “That’s ridiculous! Where do you want me to look? And even if I
   was looking, show me one guy who doesn’t check out pretty
   women. It means absolutely nothing.”

Todd’s reaction is:

• Secure


• Insecure

Insecure tactics Todd used:

Secure tactics Todd could use:

Emma’s reaction is:

• Secure


• Insecure
  Insecure tactics Emma used: