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Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit http://www.datingdynamics.com for more information.Throughout this program, what I will help you do is to take action, because once you
take action, you build your self-confidence by stepping on the treadmill and starting. Once you
move from a shuffle, you’ll find that the treadmill helps you push it to a walk, then to a trot, and
before you know it, you’re running. That’s the nature of the Confidence Treadmill.
JUST SAY NO! (MEN) .................................................................................................................................
Every so often, you need to tell a woman “No.” This could be in response to her tests, or
just a refusal to eat where she wants. You have to demonstrate that you will not be walked on or
controlled. The vast majority of men is often too compliant with women, fearing that if they say
“No” to her, she’ll stop giving them sex or she’ll disapprove in some way. They’re afraid of
risking her anger. Anger is necessary! It shows there is some passion between you.
If you can’t get a woman angry with you, you don’t have her emotionally attracted to you, either.Be sure to exert your demands and interest in your dates or relationship – judiciously.
She will respect you for this, even if she may seem initially unhappy with your “inflexible”
behavior. You have to be comfortable with not having her acceptance from time to time in order
to have acceptance and respect over the long haul. A woman cannot love a man more than she
respects him.
DO WHAT YOU KNOW YOU MUST..............................................................................................................
Here’s a syndrome I’ve noticed many times. See if it this fits you:"Gee, I really like this girl. She’s the ONE, man. But I know what I have to do to not lose this
one; I need to not call her tonight. I’ll be a challenge just like they say.
I won’t call her. I’ll wait."
(5 minutes pass by)"But... gee, I can’t help myself! I REALLY LIKE this one! She’s different!
But ... I have to ... show ... discipline..."
(30 seconds pass.)"ARRRRRGGGGGHHHHHHH..."Sound of fingers dialing the phone... Answering machine kicks in: "Hi! This is Sheila! I’m
home monitoring my calls, making you wonder where I am, but you can leave a loser message
at the beep! Bye!"