The quitter says things like: “I knew this would never work!” Or “This is too hard and
it’s not worth it. I’m going to give up.” Or “Why am I doing this? I don’t need the
hassle.” The Quitter looks to ignore any learning experiences by giving up and giving
into his negative emotions. He runs away when he should be running forward.
The final character is The Denier.
This person tries to deny he has made a mistake by saying things like: “No, there is
nothing wrong. Things are fine.” Or “What? I didn’t do anything wrong.” Or “Don’t
worry, things will work out.” This is the type of person who tries to bury his mistakes
and act like they never happened.
When people get upset due to a mistake or accident, one or more of these characters will
take over their mind and body.
But if you want to LEARN, and gain wisdom and experience from this priceless mistake,
you have to let the Responsible You eventually take control of your thinking.
The Responsible You will say things like “Okay, I made that mistake. What lesson can I
learn from what happened?” Or “What can I do to ensure I don’t do that again?” Or
“What can I do so that next time this situation arises, I’m prepared?”
When someone says to themselves “I’m glad this mistake happened because I learned
this or that from the experience,” they are accepting responsibility for their actions and
building a foundation of experience from which they can improve.
Understand this simple rule of dating:
It’s Always Your Fault!
Following this rule will help you learn and improve with women faster than anything else
available in this world.
Believe that EVERYTHING is within your control. You are not a victim in life, you are
someone who shapes his life. If you have a bad experience with a girl, it is because of
something YOU DID.
The beauty of this is that if something you did caused a bad experience, that means that
something you do can cause a good experience in the same situation.
The people who avoid their mistakes do not understand this concept.
Your actions are completely under your control, and mistakes can dictate to you what
actions you must take to get the result you want.
And once you mastered this, you will find you make fewer, and fewer mistakes.
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