The Art of Approaching

GO FOR THE DATE, OR GO FOR THE NUMBER? Terrence was a pretty good looking guy, which is what made his question stand out to me. ...

she has at least six guys she’s met calling her, plus her friends, plus her family. That’s a lot of people to call back, isn’t i ...

“Exactly,” I said. “You make hard plans right then and there to see each other again. Why wouldn’t you? It’s all about maximizin ...

“That’s pretty slick,” said Terrence. “I’ll have to try that sometime.” “Don’t use it to steal a girl’s number, though.” I said. ...

HOW TO TAKE HER ON INTERESTING DATES I often get asked questions about how to make dates more interesting. My reply is always “T ...

Taking the girl on a hike, or someplace cool in your area for sight seeing can make an interesting date. Riding bikes in the par ...

THE SCREENING PROCESS (FIND YOURSELF A GOOD WOMAN!) James was one of the sweetest guys I had ever met. There was absolutely noth ...

things instead of school supplies and clothes for our son. Every time I try to do something about it, she threatens to disappear ...

But that doesn't mean you're not still playing Russian Roulette with your love life (and in some instances, your health and fina ...

go ahead and have the baby. This means that whether you break up with her or not, you'll be stuck paying child support for the n ...

If she had no father growing up – as in a child of divorce who grew up with her mother with no real male role models – her perce ...

WHY YOU SHOULDN’T BE “FRIENDS” BEFORE DATING “I think I’m in love,” said Eric. He looked like he was in love. He’d been floating ...

I nibbled on a fry while I pondered Eric’s words. “Why?” I asked. “Huh?” “Why wouldn’t I?” said Eric. “It’s good to become frien ...

“You’d think that, wouldn’t you?” I said. “But look at the results it’s gotten you so far. You meet a girl, you like her, you ha ...

They think that if the girl gets to know them better before they make their move, that they’ll have a better shot of hooking up ...

Eric nodded. “So that’s what I’ve been doing wrong all this time,” he said. “I’ve portrayed myself as the safe friend and have b ...

Many times, guys will hear the woman say things like “we’re moving too fast,” or “I hardly know you.” They mistake this for a si ...

THE MAGIC OF MISTAKES When we are in school, it is hammered into our heads that mistakes are bad and must be avoided at all cost ...

The people who ignore their mistakes or write them off are destined to make the same mistake time and time again. When it comes ...

The quitter says things like: “I knew this would never work!” Or “This is too hard and it’s not worth it. I’m going to give up.” ...