Mars and Venus On a Date :

his own voice, he is still very receptive to her joining in the conversation. This is hard for a woman to remember because on he ...

her planet is to listen and wait to be asked. To interrupt just doesn’t feel natural to a woman, because it isn’t natural. But i ...

Don’t Say, “Are You Ever Going to Take a Breath?” Here the message is that he is doing something wrong. This can be hurtful, p ...

of listening, the man wants to explain that he does understand. Ironically and tragically, the more he cares, the more defensive ...

Don’t Say, “Are You Even Interested in What I Think?” This sounds like a criticism and may unnecessarily turn him off. Remembe ...

After making some comment to acknowledge him, just change the subject. Don’t Say, “Well, I Disagree. I Think...” Sometimes wom ...

Don’t Say, “May I Ask You a Question?” A woman should not wait to get a man’s permission before expressing her opinion. Not on ...

WHY MEN DON’T LIKE BEING QUESTIONED Most women are surprised to hear that men don’t like being questioned. Certainly a few quest ...

When a woman talks about problems, a man mistakenly assumes that she is asking him what to do about them. Whether she really is ...

15 Why Men Don’t Call Quite often a man will ask a woman for her number or take her out on a date and then not call. The woman t ...

standing of how men approach dating, not only can a woman correctly interpret a man’s behaviors but she can interact in a way th ...

women. A man may go out of town for a week. When he gets back, the first thing he wants to do is have sex, but his wife may not ...

world of intimate relationships with Venusians. When a man finally does call after a date, the woman, having waited, won- dering ...

In each of these examples, the woman is particularly annoyed by normal and automatic Martian behavior. Without an under- standin ...

cure and needing some reassurance, many women would be turned off. Women are most attracted to a man who is confid- ent. Many me ...

may find you do have something to say. Ask her what she liked about the movie or dinner. When you let her talk about it, she wil ...

attracted to the right person for you will increase. This practice is particularly important for people who repeatedly find them ...

way to call. He would feel arrogant to presume that she liked him and would want him to pursue the relationship. For many men, d ...

doesn’t call; if he is not sure, he doesn’t call; and if he wants to end it, he doesn’t call. No wonder dating can be so frustra ...

Just the thought of her asking, “Why don’t you want to get to know me?” is upsetting. He doesn’t know how to deal with a questio ...