The Art of Approaching

Obviously, every Situational Opener is dependant on the situation you’re in, but here are a few common ones I’ve used in the pas ...

“Actually, you seem nice enough. I take it back, we can go out. Let’s get together at (someplace) at (sometime).” If she tries t ...

The idea behind it is that this guy is a real player and needs to share the wealth, and by pointing this out, you also disqualif ...

PART III: LEARNING TO APPROACH Now that you have Theory and Specifics, it is time to put all of that together and learn how to A ...

FEAR OF THE APPROACH I’m willing to bet that there has been a time in every man’s life where he has been afraid to approach some ...

Secure. Comfortable. In this zone, you know what to expect, and therefore don’t have to worry about feeling afraid. And more oft ...

You wanna tap that ass. And this is where the barrier exists. It’s this intense desire for that woman you find attractive that h ...

OVERCOMING THE BARRIERS Just like there are two barriers to approaching, there are two things one must do to overcome them. The ...

When you detach yourself from the possibility that you may be able to sleep with a girl, you free yourself from your Fear of Los ...

BOOTCAMP In the military, before a recruit is allowed to join the ranks of actual soldiers, he must go through bootcamp. Bootcam ...

This Primary Opener is what you are ALWAYS going to Open with. It’ll be the first thing you say to a girl. This way, you won’t h ...

The reason for ejecting is that by doing so, you predetermine the outcome of the interaction. Because you already know how the i ...

BOOTCAMP GOALS Once you know what to do for the Bootcamp, you need goals that you have to meet. In the beginning, the goals will ...

LONG TERM BOOTCAMP GOALS Eventually, you’ll want to start adding in the other two Openers you memorized into your interactions. ...

Eventually, you’ll get to a point where talking to strangers is normal and easy for you to do. You may want to continue to build ...

BOOTCAMP BREAKDOWN Here’s the breakdown of the Bootcamp schedule for easy reference. Prerequisite Work: Memorize 3 Openers Choo ...

Get target’s response Stack Secondary Opener Get target’s response Stack Third Opener Get target’s response Eject Gradually ad ...

WHERE TO MEET WOMEN One of the big-big-BIG questions I always get from men is “Wow, your stuff is great, but where do I go to me ...

Grocery stores are a big untapped resource as well. Right after work usually lets out, around the 4-6 pm timeframe, is always a ...

Finally, there is a LOT of competition in Bars and Clubs. This is because other men will go to them looking to pick up a girl fo ...