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Epilogue For us, the most important take-home message from this book is that relationships should not be left to chance. Relatio ...

But on second thought, we quickly realized we had bought into every possible relationship fallacy. Even we, with our professiona ...

terms of your attachment styles, you can now tackle this problem from a completely different angle. The third hard-to-shed misco ...

anchor, we derive strength and encouragement to go out into the world and make the most of ourselves. He or she is there to help ...

ACKNOWLEDGMENTS We are grateful to many people for helping us during the writing of this book. First and foremost, we thank our ...

rigorous setting allowed me to continue to learn and to expand my horizons on a daily basis. I thank the Shinui Institute for Fa ...

in the therapeutic nursery; Dr. Abby Fyer, from whom I learned a great deal in conversations over the years, and who taught me a ...

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INDEX abnormal relationship admitting there’s a problem deactivating strategies (prior to breakup) distress after breakup exampl ...

conflict workshop during disagreement five secure principles for conflicts insecure people’s difficulty with secure resolution p ...

deciding to let go of escaping from finding a way around Georgia and Henry example Grace and Sam example intimacy differences re ...

of anxious attachment style anxious/avoidant styles’ mutual attraction of avoidant attachment style danger zone distress after r ...

self-reliance mistaken for independence similarity to anxious attachment style smoking guns that indicate tendency to misinterpr ...

Coan, James Coan MRI experiment codependency myth comfort zone anxious attachment style’s abandonment of danger zone v. secure p ...

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distancing strategies. See also deactivating strategies distraction strategy Doyle, Arthur Conan ECR. See Experience in Close Re ...