Parenting With Love and Logic: Teaching Children Responsibility

gaining by relinquishing, 91 , 125 gaining through choices, 79–96 giving away, 21 , 79–80, 84–85, 114 giving ...

professional, 191 , 213 , 242 counselors, 27 , 129 courage, 44 creativity, 105 , 141–43 credentials, 24–25 c ...

dependence, 19 , 21 , 25 , 165 curing, 218 depression, 21 , 251 deprivation of privileges, 97 , 99 of toys, ...

telling child about, 155–56 dressing. See clothes drill sergeant parents, 25–26, 27 , 80 , 128 , 257 drin ...

energy, emotional, 36 enforceable statements, 13 , 57–59, 65 , 71 examples of, 258–59 thinking words and, ...

fighting words, 69–71, 74 , 75 avoiding, 85 orders and, 88 firmness, 76–77, 110 , 148 , 150 followers, ...

grandparents, 187–89 gratitude, 179–80 grounding, 99 growth, impeding, 52–53 guidance, 27 , 65 guilt, 26 , 61 ...

jealousy, 180 jobs, 41–42, 214 . See also chores judgment, 220 kindness, 187 laissez-faire parents, 26 la ...

life, view of, 13 limits, 57–59 choices within, 27 , 30 , 57 , 76 , 80 , 81–83 enforceable, 27 , 248 ...

principles of, 56–61 rehearsing use of, 110 , 186 simplicity of, 57 lying, 198–99, 227 “magical people,” 39–40 ma ...

cleaning up rooms, 214 honesty, 199 to influence behavior, 55 , 84 , 98 problem ownership, 191 responsib ...

motivation for, 70 opinions, 174 opposition, 94 . See also resistance optimism, 19 options. See choices orde ...

needs of, 32 , 33 , 61 putting selves first, 49–50, 114 single, 13 sports and, 224–26 stepparents, 154–55 t ...

problem solving, 20 , 32–33. See also decision making ability, 34 , 52 , 53 , 168 burden of, 63 , ...

investigative, 198 manner of, 184 , 197 multiple-choice, 254 as order alternative, 206 rationalization (for ...

to choices, 94–95 respect, 30 , 70 , 245 . See also disrespect insistence on, 114 lack of, 166 losing, ...

self-concept and, 35 taking, 42–43 teaching, 14 , 33–34, 93 understanding, 27 results of crisis, 145 focus o ...

control capability, 42–44 erosion of, 36 parent’s, 110 , 111 parents’ view of child and, 36–37 poor, 35 , ...

cost of, 49 using, 33 single parents, 13 skills, 40–42, 167 coping, 105 , 180 , 206 problem-solving, 221 , ...

sucking, 203–4 suicide, 21 support, 186 , 199 swearing, 229–30 sympathy, 110 table manners, 161–63 taking ...