The Art of Approaching

Use these questions to clarify what you’re feeling so you know how to fix it. For instance, if you want to approach a woman, but ...

Now, challenge this thought. Write down everything you can think of that negates it. Things like: “I don’t know what this woman ...

Confidence: Once you have the other four states down, confidence naturally follows. We all have confidence in certain areas. For ...

THE ART OF APPROACHING He stood six foot, five inches tall (almost seven feet with his platform shoes and top hat). He looked ov ...

Mystery wasn’t what you’d expect from a pick-up instructor. You’d think he’d look like a Don Juan, male-model type guy. And thou ...

The notion that a guy who looked like that could be a pick up artist – let alone a great one intrigued me. I made the decision ...

He pointed to a group of two girls and a guy by the bar talking. “Yeah,” I said. “Go approach them,” he said. “I... I can’t. I d ...

At that the girls laughed. I laughed too. I stood there like an idiot for a good two minutes while the three of them debated who ...

The type of guy who’d rather get a root canal than talk to a girl. The type of guy who’d rather run a mile on a broken leg than ...

PART I: THE THEORY OF APPROACHING Here, we will discuss the theories behind the Art of Approaching. This section will lay the gr ...

WHAT IS AN OPENER? A butterfly flaps its wings, the breeze it creates sends a puff of pollen from a nearby flower into the air, ...

Why is this important? Simple. If you DON’T open a woman, your chance of seeing her again and leading into a relationship or sex ...

WHAT IS INTEREST? There is more to Opening a woman than simply knowing what to say. Indeed, the process of Opening a girl can be ...

Now, obviously, whenever a man approaches a woman, she knows what’s up. Most girls are very savvy to the fact that the reason me ...

This is where you will approach a girl, and open her, without telegraphing any interest at all. Why is this effective? Especiall ...

interested in her, but she can’t quite prove it. It gives you the opportunity you need to win her over. But being neutral simply ...

TYPES OF OPENERS There are many different kinds of Openers out there. Technically, the first thing you say to ANYBODY, no matter ...

INTRUDERS As people go about their daily lives, they exist within a personal bubble they create for themselves. This bubble not ...

“Hi” is good for almost any situation. It works best in low key atmospheres like dinner parties. But “Hi” is best used after eye ...

gives your target the opportunity to reject your entrance into their reality, should they so desire. The purpose of Intruders is ...