The Art of Approaching

And when you make the advice positive, you are presenting an attractive option that you’re target may follow. And if they accept ...

your engine. It’ll save you lots of money in the long run on car repairs. Do you know a lot about cars?” This is actually good a ...

another Opener on top of this one, because even though this bit of advice Opens, there’s not many places you can go with it conv ...

COMPLIMENT OPENER The compliment is probably the oldest Opener known to man. This is perhaps its greatest weakness. Because the ...

But Compliment Openers can work if done right. By “Doing it right,” I mean complimenting a girl on something that is unique, and ...

Complimenting a girl on the way she moves has a somewhat sexual undertone, but is not overtly sexual. Nor does it telegraph inte ...

You can use this Opener with any girl who seems very assertive or opinionated. Also, if it looks like the girl knows where she’s ...

DIRECT OPENERS This is probably the most dangerous form of Opener there is, not just because it telegraphs interest quite blatan ...

This is a relatively simple one. All you do is walk up to your target, smile, and say: “Hi. I like you. I wanted to meet you. My ...

I call this the “Joey” Opener because the character Joey on the television show “Friends” popularized this Opener. It’s meant to ...

DRAMA OPENER Whether it be in movies, television, or real life, nothing captures the attention of someone like DRAMA! But this i ...

“You won’t believe what just happened to me.” The above statement not only engages your target by challenging them to believe wh ...

“Well, eventually the fire department shows up and tears the hood of the car off so they can put out the fire. As they were doin ...

“Well, his friends helped him up and the guy snapped out of it and he started talking shit again. So the mohawk guy comes back a ...

“Yeah, I’m a real cold-hearted BASTARD, aren’t I? Actually, I’m curious, would you ever fight over a guy like that?” The “Cat Fi ...

This is a pretty funny story, and the resolution is one where you open up further conversation about relationships, something wo ...

INSULT OPENER To call this an “Insult” Opener is a bit of a misnomer. Perhaps a better name for it would be an “Undermining” Ope ...

It’s very important that the Compliment is made FIRST, before the Undermining Statement, otherwise you run the risk of offending ...

The idea behind this Opener is to start imitating your target in the most annoyingly whiny, over-exaggerated, girlie-voice you c ...

Once that happens, you’ve got her. --The “I don’t like you” Opener This is an Opener where you suddenly, out of the blue, say to ...