Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man

wants to be—the kind that just might fit in line with what you’re looking for in a good, solid mate. But if you ask him what his ...

Trust me on this: a man who really has a vision for where he wants to see himself in ten years has looked into his future and se ...

And then I met Sinbad. Now at the time, Sinbad was working at a comedy club in Birmingham, where he’d become so large, he was ma ...

Now this one is a multiple-part question that sizes up how a man feels about a gamut of relationships—from how he feels about hi ...

Next, ask him about his relationship with his mother. It’s the first relationship a man has with a woman, and if he has a good t ...

no intention of ever going, and he has no belief system he can point to as a guiding force in his life, then it’s a problem. Aft ...

you. You have a right to know. Oh, trust me, he thought some- thing about you when he first walked up to you, and you need to kn ...

that makes you a great mom. And so forth with whatever char- acteristic he attributes to you. The level of his specifics will gi ...

go into that part of himself that he doesn’t like to go to, and that’s the emotional part. Men do not do emotion well, at all, a ...

We men are fully aware that we have to answer these ques- tions, and any real man is going to answer them. You may not necessari ...

we like talking about ourselves, our answers just may make us consider the woman who’s asking the questions in a different light ...

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11 The Ninety-Day Rule N ineteen seventy-seven—it was a good year. I was living in Cleveland, I had a two-bedroom apart- ment, b ...

were not in until you had the benefits. Ford’s policy was that you had to work at least ninety days before they’d cover your hea ...

anytime soon. If I got a toothache—hell, if both of my front teeth were loose and about to fall clean out of my mouth—there woul ...

And he could walk off the job at any time. And you’ll have no one but yourself to blame. Think about it: the first guy you slept ...

Of course, you’ve got to use your ninety days wisely; a pro- bationary period means nothing if you’re not putting this guy throu ...

self, you’re automatically going to command that respect from a man. Make him qualify for the benefits, and I guarantee you’ll h ...

to prove to you that he deserves your love and affection. The Power. Just think of it this way: when it comes to having sex with ...

gloss shining, your eyes seductively made up, and your hair— whether it’s blown out, in a weave, or natural—is lovely, and your ...