Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

Tosummarizethetwomostcommonmistakeswemakeinrelationships: I. Aman tries to change awoman'sfeelingswhen sheis upsetby becomingMr. ...

1 ."Youshouldn'tworrysomuch." 2 ."ButthatisnotwhatIsaid." 3 ."It'snotsuchabigdeal." 4 ."OK,I'msorry.Nowcanwejustforgetit?" 5 ."W ...

Byclearlyunderstandingthathistiminganddeliveryarebeingrejectedandnothissolutions,amancan handleawoman'sresistancemuchbetter.Hedo ...

15 ."Ididn'tknowwhereyouwere."(Youshouldhavecalled.) 16 ."Somebodydrankfromthejuicebottle." 17 ."Don'teatwithyourfingers.You'res ...

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Ifhecan'tfindasolutionthenhedoessomethingtoforgethisproblems,likereadingthenewsorplaying agame.Bydisengaginghismindfromtheproble ...

Let'sexploreingreaterdetailafewexamples.Jimcommonly usesreadingthenewspapertoforgethis problems.Whenhereadsthepaperheisnolongerb ...

man.ByrememberingthatmenarefromMars,awomancancorrectlyinterprethisreactiontostressas hiscopingmechanismratherthanasanexpressiono ...

unresponsiveanddistant.Inhiscaveamanispreoccupiedwithsolvinghisproblemandisunawareofhow hisindifferentattitudemightfeeltoothers. ...

sheistalkingaboutherproblemsorothers'problems,talkingisanaturalandhealthyVenusianreactionto stress. How Men React When Women Nee ...

she stillneeds to talk about them. She feels supported if the listener relates to her frustration and disappointment.Shemay,howe ...

The Martians realizedthateven whenthey feltthey werebeing attacked, blamed, orcriticized by the Venusiansitwasonlytemporary;soon ...

accepted,theVenusiansdiscoveredthattheMartianswouldmorequicklycomeoutoftheircaves. ...

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Many womeninstinctively understand how to give thismessage. In thebeginning ofa relationship, a womangivesamanabrieflookthatsays ...

Atsuchtimeshewithdrawsfromrelationshipsorintimacyandremainsstuckinhiscave.Heaskshimself whatitisallfor,and why heshouldbother.He ...

isworthyoflove_-shedoesn'thavetoearnit;shecanrelax,giveless,andreceivemore.Shedeservesit. Too Much Giving Is Tiring To deal with ...

Similarly,amanwhogiveslessshouldnotblamehispartnerforbeingnegativeorunreceptivetohim.In bothcases,blamingdoesnotwork. Understand ...

whileSusanneededtotakeresponsibilityfornotsettingboundaries.Jimapologizedforthewayshehad hurther.Susanrealizedthatjustashehadste ...