Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

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hadalwaysbeenworthyofsupport. Thisprocessofgivingtootherspreparedthemforthewisdomofself-esteem.Throughgivingtoothers theycametos ...

practicaltechniquestohealtheseresentments. Quite often, when one partner makes a positive change the other will also change. Thi ...

It Is OK to Make Mistakes ThefirststepforamaninlearninghowtogivemoreistorealizethatitisOKtomakemistakesanditis OKtofailandthathe ...

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"Iwanttoforgeteverything." "Ifyoudon'tlikeyourjob,thenquit." "Thehouseisalwaysamess." "It'snotalwaysamess." "Noonelistenstomeany ...

Ineachofthetranslationsthishiddenrequestforsupportisrevealed.Ifamanlisteningtoawomancan recognizetheimpliedrequestandrespondacco ...

"Thishouseisalwaysamess"translatedintoMartianmeans"TodayIfeellikerelaxing,butthehouseisso messy.IamfrustratedandIneedarest.Ihope ...

dowhatyouwanttodo,foryouandonlyyou.Youdonotcareaboutanybody.Iwasafoolforlovingyou. NowIhavenothing." "Wearealwaysinahurry"transl ...

expressingthemoutloudhelpshertotapintoherintuition.Thisprocessisperfectlynormalandespecially necessarysometimes. Butmenprocessin ...

andeverythingwillbefine. ThislessonisdifficultforwomenbecauseonVenusoneofthegoldenruleswasnevertoabandonafriend when she wasupse ...

3 .Tofeelbetterandmorecenteredwhensheisupset.(Hestopstalkingwhenheisupset.Inhiscavehe hasachancetocooloff.) 4 .Tocreateintimacy. ...

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"I'mOK"translatedintoVenusianmeans"IamOK,Icandealwithmyupset.Idon'tneedanyhelp,thank you." Withoutthistranslation,whenhesays"Iam ...

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youcan handleit"or "That'stheirproblem,notyours" or"I'msureitwillworkout." Mensupportone anotherbynotworryingorminimizingtheirtr ...

takingcareofmyselfandgoingintomycave.ShetruststhatIwillcomebackandbemoreloving. SheknowsthatwhenIgointomycaveisnottherighttimeto ...

Inadditiontopatientlytrustingherpartnertogrowandchange,ifawomanisnotgettingwhatsheneeds andwants,shecanandshouldshareherfeelings ...

himlikeachild,orhemayfeelshewantstochangehim. Thisdoesn'tmeanthatamandoesnotneedcomfortinglove.Womenneedtounderstandthattheyare ...

mentalfiguringandwarnmethatIhadn'tleftenoughtimetocatchmyplane.Eachtimeshethoughtshe wassupportingme,butIdidn'tfeelit.Ifeltoffen ...